Marriage DOES work if you work it!
Marriage is 50/50, and does take time and work!
M: Makes Us one (No more I, it’s WE)
A: Always keep the relationship fresh
R: Respect your vows
R: Remain consistent
I: I’ll 💖 you forever!
A: Allow your husband to be the head and your wife to be a help mate (Bible says so) 😄
G: Good laughter
E: Encourage each other to do better
Marriage DOES ALLOW you to fall in love with the same person over and over again! You just have to find NEW ways everyday. Plus it’s fun too! 😉
Your mate should be your BEST Friend, that you can go to and share everything with them. Their should be NO secrets or surprises that should come about and cause confusion. When things like this happen; you’ve simply allowed the DEVIL 😈😈 to come in and take a seat! (the DEVIL hates marriage) Kick him out, GOD’S got you if you doing right according to his word and by your mate. #he can’t stay in my house
GOD says: Mark 10:9 “What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.”
GOD even says: “A house divided can’t stand”
But he also says: “A man that findth a wife, findth a good thing, and obtains favor from the Lord” (Proverbs 18:22) Women stop looking for your Adam, he’s right front of you, but you won’t see him because your looking for Mr. Right now! Allow GOD to lead you in the direction for love, he may NOT be what you want him to look like… but he will be what GOD has in store for you. Mean the things you’ve been praying that you wanted in a man, may be there but because he’s NOT your type… you will pass on him. Basically, judging a book by the cover and haven’t read the autobiography on it yet. Don’t want to do that, missing ALL the important things it has to offer.
Marriage is a lifetime commitment! And with this commitment you have to consider your spouse’s opinion and choices that are made in the household. Don’t ALLOW someone on the outside looking in to tell you what to do in your marriage! This is one of the biggest mistake that 1000’s of people make and has caused the divorce rate to sky rocket. You have to deal with issues amongst yourselves, and come to a common ground. I TOO have made this mistake! But, I asked for forgiveness from my husband and vowed to NEVER do it again. (It’s a learning process)
Marriage takes each person allowing themselves to be fully committed to each other and NOT willing to give up. But, if you put GOD first in your relationship everything else will fall into place and work correctly. Once again Marriage will work if you allow GOD to work on you!
This is where it ALL began, in Genesis 2: (speaking about Adam and Eve) “That it is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him. But for Adam no suitable helper was found. So the Lord God caused the man to fall into a deep sleep; and while he was sleeping, he took one of the man’s ribs and then closed up the place with flesh. 22 Then the Lord God made a woman from the rib he had taken out of the man, and he brought her to the man.The man said,“This is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh she shall be called ‘woman,’ for she was taken out of man.”
24 That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh.
Lastly, when we get married we have to allow each other to help. It’s not being controlling, it’s being humble and submissive to each other. Co sideri g their views, opinions, decisions, and beliefs. This is why GOD added women (the helper) for men. GOD knew what he was doing! #wink hahah
Remember, NO marriage can last without the commitment to GOD and each other! (Put GOD first in your marriage) Also remember, you didn’t say your vows for the pleasing of man… you confessed them to GOD! He is the one who matters most!
Mrs. BW-TEE 💕