Good Morning Sparkling * BW-TEE’S!
Today’s topic will be Modesty. (I’m NOT judging anyone, this is my personal opinion)
Now, this topic is hard because you can EASILY offend someone… but this is NOT MY PURPOSE! I am trying to make teenage girls, young ladies and women aware of the appearance that’s shown out in the world. When your a lady (like some say) you should act and conduct yourselves according… you don’t have to wear EVERYTHING you see someone else wearing. Your Appearance should be used as a form of Modesty! And that fits your body structure appropriately.
Definition of Modesty: “The behavior, manner, or appearance intended to avoid impropriety or indecency”.
Yes, you can wear what you like… but wear the right size and make sure that it’s not too much, or evething hanging out or showing. Nowadays, We are looking at the celebrities on t.v. (that’s ALL we see) and think hmmm.. if they can wear so can I. Yes, this is also true! Learning how to make the look work for you and enhance your NATURAL BEAUTY is the key. We have so many young ladies are growing up without the proper guidance on how to dress or even be a young lady. I blame that on Society and the uninformed parent. This is NOT definitely a learned behave. Set certain boundaries for your child, don’t buy it and don’t all it! This is a representation of YOU when she walks out YOUR house… Think about, what do people see???? We as ADULT women have to set the tone for how these young women growing up SHOULD dress and behave in public.
God says: ” In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array.” 1 Timothy 2:9
God also says: “What? know you not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which you have of God, and you are not your own? (1 Cor. 6:19)
People ask me all the time “why you don’t wear shorts, or short skirts or your shirts a certain way; you have a nice shape??” Well, the REAL reason is… You ready???? Because I consider myself a LADY and I respect my body as a temple unto GOD and this is his temple! I have a young daughter who is watching me, and I’m setting the tone for her! I don’t have to be like EVERYBODY else, b/c I’m content and HAPPY with myself: Just the way I am! Once you learn how to love you, you will view yourself a lot different. Not saying you don’t love you b/c you do wear those things, what I’m just saying: You will respect yourself more and so will men. You have to leave something to the imagination! Let people be in amazement at your beauty, not your body!
Remember, you set the tone for how people will view you. That’s why they say: “First impression is the last impression!” Because it’s what they WILL ALWAYS remember about you!! Nothing else after that…
Have a BLESSED day BW-TEE’S!
Mrs. BW-TEE 💕 💕
Mrs. BW-TEE 💕